LIVE LIFE TO EXPRESS NOT TO IMPRESS.

LIVE LIFE TO EXPRESS NOT TO IMPRESS.
October 23, 2019 20 Comments Uncategorized admin

The power to express yourself is something every human being should posses .Whenever you do something,do it to express yourself and not to impress others.The moment you start doing things to impress others it leads to failure.You will always gain respect when you express yourself rather than impress.We get lost by trying to impress .Sometimes we all have that feeling to impress others,but before impressing another person first think what good will you gain at the end.

Reasons why people live life to impress.

1.To gain favours from others.

2.Fear of being judged.

3.Lack of self-love.

4.Peer pressure.

5.Economic differences.

Effects of living life to impress others.

1.You loose focus on important things eg. your goals in life.

2.Low self esteem.

3.Loss of self respect.

4.Stress and depression.

5.Self guilt.

6.Lack of freedom.

How to stop impressing others?

1.Find new relationships.

2.Look for what you love doing most and start doing it.

3.Fit yourself with people of your status in the society.

4.Have a positive mindset.

5.Ignore criticism from others.

Live your life, be free,do the things you love the most and surround yourself with people who you are comfortable being around.In the end people will judge anyway therefore live to impress yourself and not others.Create a life that feels good on the inside not one that just looks good on the outside.

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  1. 1

    Job

    Thanks Vivian..it has really changed my way of thinking

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  2. 1

    Katy Liang

    Well said! And how liberating it is to express who you really are!

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    sarganser

    Well said, we try so hard to impress so many times we even forget to live.Personally I think I`ve reached a stage in my life where it`s take me as I am or move on I don`t care, I don`t have to please people any more.

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    Nicole Anderson

    Definitely some good advice to live by here! Too many of us just worry about what others will think, rather than living your life honestly and staying true your own values. Doing this while being kind to others will surely help set us on the path to true happiness.

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    Albert

    Good work vivian

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    myspiritualshenanigans

    Yes! If only we could allow ourselves to be authentic and show up as we are in our relationships, we would feel a lot less lonely in the crowd. Great lists!

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    shaddybiwott

    I couldn’t agree more. Great article

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    Ellen Mika Zelasko

    Great article. I love the part about living your life the way you want, not caring about what other people think! It’s there that we can find true happiness!

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    Mira - The Handy Journal

    very true ! However it takes a lot of life lessons before realizing this ! Thanks for sharing this !

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    Simon Starchevsky

    Makes perfect sense, since when you are expressing yourself, you are doing it for yourself not everyone else.

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  11. 1

    Lulu

    I try not to worry about what other people think of me. I do what’s best for me. Great article.

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  12. 1

    Polly Amora

    I agree with all these. I’ve never been the one to impress others, I’d rather impress myself. Thank you for this insightful post!

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  13. 1

    Glam2Greatness

    Well said. Impressing others is very exhausting and it leaves you empty.

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  14. 1

    aisasami

    Amen! We need to stop impressing people and start living our own lives. That is how we will be happier!

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  15. 1

    Blairvillanueva

    Every time we try to impress just to fit in their circle wouldn’t work and it will be a stressful life. I learned to create my own and express myself.

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  16. 1

    Shoppers Gossip

    All the points are very true. This is a good read! Thanks for the share.

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  17. 1

    Mila R

    I think that the lack of self-love is the major thing. Others are just variations.

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  18. 1

    Ch. Nikhila

    I couldn’t agree more. Great post.

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  19. 1

    Adventures with Shelby

    I love this! So true

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  20. 1

    hanifa yusliha

    Live your life, be free,do the things you love the most and surround yourself with people who you are comfortable being around

    Reply

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